My mother once said that girls named Sita are ‘Janamdukhi’--eternally sad—and warned not to name any daughter as Sita. I have been working on the topic of ‘Vanvaas’, where daughters are given away, or ‘sent off’ to in-laws’ houses, for good. Daughters are ‘parayadhan’, someone else's wealth, brought up by parents only to be sent on their way after marriage. The concept, needless to say, is prehistoric. How can a girl reinvent herself, appear ‘new’, so to speak, as wife, daughter-in-law, mother repeatedly? The process constantly depletes her intrinsic self so that at some point she forgets what she once was. This, of course, is what is expected of her. She must adapt at all costs. Any flaw in this process of surrender leads to her fall from the status of a ‘Devi’.