When Sita hears Rama’s wail in the woods, she urges Lakshmana to help his brother. He refuses, recognising the trick, saying Rama can take care of himself. “You want him to perish, Lakshmana, because of me,” she says. “For with him gone, what could I, left alone, do to stop you from doing the one thing you came here to do? I would not even touch another man, not even with my foot [3.43.6-8, 20-24, 34].” “Damn you, to doubt me like that,” Lakshmana replies, “always thinking evil of others, just like a woman [3.43.29].” Valmiki’s Sita, explains Doniger, is “not a doormat”. She even clashes with Rama on issues that probe his character. When they enter the forest, she asks him why he “carries weapons in this peaceful place”, translates Doniger, especially as he’s “adopted the attire (and, presumably, the lifestyle and dharma) of an ascetic”. He says his weapons will protect Sita and other defenceless animals. In an “impassioned discourse against violence”, Sita tells him that she fears “he is by nature inclined to violence” and just carrying the weapons “will put wicked thoughts in his mind [3.8.1-29]”.