Ironically, India is replacing Pakistan as the “most reliable friend” of the United States in South Asia, a ‘Major Defense Partner’—and so is in danger, as Pakistan used to be, of being dragged into American wars. Should we not proactively seek reconciliation with China and Pakistan rather than continue our war on two fronts? Could we not at least try? For, as Ambassador Sattar showed during his halcyon days in Delhi, whatever resentments hang over us from the past, once we engage, there is a flowering of goodwill that augurs well for the settlement of even apparently intractable disputes. As he puts it, “Although unmarked by any milestones commemorating resolution of bitter disputes, the interlude (1977-79) was memorable for softening hard images, providing an environment for mutual compromise”. He adds, “It is tempting to speculate about the potential inherent in such a transformation”. If even such a hardliner as Abdul Sattar can be seduced into flexibility by no more than good behaviour on our part—”good manners and respect for principles of peaceful co-existence”, as he puts it, will this not “foster an environment of good-neighbourly relations conducive to settlement of differences and disputes”, as he urges? That is the essence—the rest is overblown ‘nationalism’ of the Modi and Sattar kind.