Uma Mesthrie, who is a professional historian, does portray Gandhi as a severe father who imposed his principles on Manilal. Although he knew Manilal was very anxious to study, when Gandhi had the opportunity to send one of his two older sons to Britain on a scholarship, he sent one of their cousins instead. He once told Manilal, "If you think of study for earning a livelihood, it is not proper; for God gives food to all. You can get enough to eat by doing manual labour." To a young man just setting out on life that must have seemed at best unrealistic idealism, and probably cruel insensitivity too. Yet Manilal never revolted against his father’s advice on his education, or the career he should pursue. Even when he was told he should not marry the Muslim girl he wanted to be his wife, Manilal obeyed.