And not found their stories alien? Even fantastical? Memory magnified, pain and prejudice personified. But surely theirs was the rhetoric rather than the record of history as WE knew it? Easy, staccato statistic. Dramatis personae: Nehru, Gandhi, Jinnah, Mountbatten, communal riots, twelve million displaced, 75,000 women raped/ abducted/ impregnated. Like Butalia however, we wondered. Where did the individual angst we saw being relived all our adult lives belong? Did the generality of history exclude the inclusion of that particularity? Or were we subcontinentals, unlike the survivors of the Jewish Holocaust, not ready to "process" and narrate the individual experiences that constitute what Butalia calls the "underside" of history? Fearful, unable to deal with the memories that might unstopper? Did we agree with writer Krishna Sobti that Partition was "difficult to forget but dangerous to remember"?