As Tolstoy battled his illness, his assistant Chertkov was among the first to visit. However, Tolstoy’s relationship with his wife, Sofya, took a complex turn. Tolstoy expressed a strong desire to avoid seeing her and even exhibited fear at her arrival.
Despite his wishes, Sofya did eventually go to him. Yet, according to accounts, a collective decision was made by doctors and their children to withhold her presence from Tolstoy, shielding him from the knowledge of her arrival. Only hours before his passing and in his unconscious state, she was finally permitted to see him.
Tolstoy's final journey from this world was met with a significant outpouring of grief. People congregated at his Yasnaya Polyana estate to bid farewell to the literary giant. The ceremony honored Tolstoy's wishes, devoid of Orthodox religious undertones, aligning instead with secular principles. His resting place, in line with his desire for simplicity, lacks a cross or traditional memorial. Visitors can still pay their respects at the unassuming earthen mound that cradles his legacy.