An Ex-Convict Sets Up A Home For Children Of Prisoners

They're under the care of 45-year-old Reny George. "Daddy", as he's called by these children, is a former convict who's now working for their betterment. He's the guardian of at least 30 children whose parents are serving prison terms in Bangalore, Belgaum and Mysore, and a few others whose parents have been victims of crime. Reny set up the Precious Children's Home in 1996, a year after he completed a 14-year sentence for murder during his student days. "Those days are over. I'm doing my duty as a citizen," says Reny, emphasising how he's working to erase the stigma that haunts children of prisoners. Most of these children were either languishing in jail along with their parents, or were under the care of relatives in remote villages. Some were denied admission in schools because of their parents' criminal status; few others had to drop out because no one would pay their fees.

Says B.S. Abbai, jail superintendent at Central Prison, Bangalore: "They (Reny and wife Tina) have been doing good work. They visit the jail regularly; bring the children to meet their parents. They counsel women prisoners on health and hygiene and give them toiletries."

Reny's efforts at educating these children are being backed by the Church of South India's Council for Child Care and some "generous friends", but such is the cost of running such a novel project that Reny has had to move to the outskirts of Hosakote. "I've moved to this village because it's very expensive to be in the city," he says explaining how he has to spend about Rs 50,000 to Rs 60,000 a month, paying rent for the building, food, uniform, paying the cooks and the driver who takes them to school.

Reny runs the boarding under the aegis of the Prison Fellowship of India, and has about 35 children here from age five to 12. Besides, he supports 100 other children of prisoners in other parts of Karnataka through payment of school fees, supply of uniforms and a cultural get-together every three months.

How do people react to a project being run by an ex-convict? "It's a human tendency to treat me with suspicion because I've served a sentence. No matter what I do, they have this indelible impression about my past," he says. A past Reny is extremely touchy about. "I have a family now and don't want to look back. Please describe me as an ex-convict, that's it," is his refrain.

He offers no explanations about why he committed the crime he was convicted for. He'd rather the children at his place be written about. The oldest, Gajendra, is 12 and a budding athlete who has won a district-level race. "He'll now take part in the state-level athletics competition in Bangalore. He's keen to become an advocate," says Reny. At five, Jyothi is the youngest of them all, and is often carried around by volunteers at the Home.

Interestingly, there are at least two brother and sister pairs here because their fathers have been incarcerated. Almost in a chorus, Mary, 8, her brother Jayasheel, 7, reply they are under Reny's care because their father Prakash is in prison. Ditto with Mamata and Chandru, from Mysore, who allege that their father Manoj has been implicated in the case of their mother's murder though another man was responsible for the deed. Nine-year-old Naveen is equally nonchalant about why his father Ganesh is serving a life term at the Bangalore jail.

Most of these children want to become either policemen or lawyers when they grow up—the role models they've been exposed to during the trial of their parents. Sachin Tendulkar is yet to make an impact on them, though they throw the bat around in the backyard of their new home. Want to know more about the man and his mission, call Reny at (08111)-32205.