Kajal Bose and her husband Kalyan Bose live in Kolkata all by themselves. Both of them are in their seventies. Say the elderly couple, “We have many health issues and our house helps are unable to come because of the frequent lockdowns. Still, both of us manage somehow, but the saddest part is every summer vacation we look forward to our children and grandchildren visiting us who live in different cities. That is the thing that keeps us alive, but the summers have gone by and we are still waiting for things to normalise.”
Children and adolescents are struggling to manage their urges to be outdoors and with their friends. For many, the continuing virtual classes are leading to virtual fatigue. There are cases of increased clashes with family members, particularly in the context of the presence and utilization of social media and related platforms. Parents worry about their children’s social skills and cognitive abilities, as well as the abilities to negotiate situations and their problem-solving skills. There is a lack of social connection that is creating disruption in the lives of young individuals who are experiencing immense boredom and keep turning towards parents for guidance and support.
Covid-19 has affected the mental health of kids ranging from three to four-year-olds to adolescents. According to the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) statistics, more than one student commits suicide in India every hour, with about 28 cases reported every day. A lot of behavioural issues are noted in children and they are getting aggressive and there is a lot of anxiety about the virus and performance in their studies. Governments around the world, including Canada, UK, US and Australia have recognized that their citizen’s mental health has been adversely impacted by the pandemic and have made suicide prevention and mental well-being a top priority. Australia has announced more than half a billion (AUD) dollars to deal with the mental health fallout unleashed by Covid, including an AUD$ 48.1 million National Mental Health and Wellbeing Pandemic Response Plan. The US has announced $425 million for Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) programs. The funding will go towards crisis response, mental health support, suicide prevention, monitoring, research and community health centres.
Nelson Vinod Moses, Founder of SPIF (Suicide Prevention India Foundation), Bengaluru states, “The Indian government has stated that there has been no study conducted to evaluate the mental health effects of Covid. We pay mere lip service to mental health in a country where there are 150-million plus Indians who suffer from common and mental health illnesses pre-Covid. The post-Covid world has resulted in this increasing manifold.”
Says psychologist Seema Hingorrany, “The environment at every home is also very tense. I am doing therapy with two kids who lost their grandparents to the virus. They didn’t get to see the body and that has been very traumatic for them. Some parents have lost their jobs and the home environment is very gloomy.”
Experts have to say that there are kids coming to them for counselling whose grades have gone down drastically. Some kids are finding it difficult to grasp the lessons through online studies. There are kids who are missing their happy times spent in school with their friends, so they are feeling claustrophobic and bored in the four walls of the house. There are kids who have not yet come to terms with the reality that it will take some time for schools to open. Psychiatrist Dr Anjali Chhabria from Mumbai says, “A rise in frustration, unhealthy lifestyle and excessive use of gadgets is the prominent behavioural change seen in kids.”
In current times, everyone is running short of patience. A few things that can be done by parents, Chhabria feels is to help kids adapt to this situation by keeping aside our own negative impressions. She says, “Kids are perceptive and they will learn to be in despair if we as adults show how awful this situation is. Instead, help them transition into this process by making it less stressful for both your kid and yourself.”
According to the World Health Organisation reports, each year India contributes to around 2.2 lakh of suicides. India is dubbed the capital of suicides in Southeast Asia. Teen suicides are on a rise each year and it is a real problem in our society. Depression is one of the leading causes of deaths by suicide. On average, every 40 seconds one individual dies by suicide somewhere around the world.
Financial instability is a huge concern for a lot of people who are seeking therapy these days. The pandemic has resulted in mass unemployment. Seven months into the pandemic and the coronavirus rates increasing along with our economy in doldrums, most parents are struggling with new realities every day. Chhabria states, “The certainty that comes with monthly salary or going to a workplace is suddenly very shaky. Some people are looking for alternative job options, some of them are daring to change their field of work and a few others are restarting their journey. In case they are unable to handle the stress, I urge them to seek professional help from mental health professionals who are equipped with tools to help them.”
There are people who moved to big cities with a lot of hope, had to go back to their own towns and cities feeling miserable and depressed as they have lost their jobs. Now even if they are getting a job, they are getting it with very low pay. Says Hingorrany, “Every day I get to meet people who have lost their jobs. They are going through a terrible phase, they are unable to sleep, feeling anxious, they are crying all the time and feeling angry towards the creator, that is god. Many of them are sole earning members of their family, so they are selling off their gold and borrowing money from relatives. Basically, the uncertainty is killing them from within. These times are such that help is required not only from mental health professionals, but we need to unite and help each other. And if we notice somebody is suffering, we should immediately try and help them out.”
For the caregivers, the pandemic is extremely stressful. They are also living this pandemic and trying to combat like all of us. The added responsibility of a patient is a point of stress as the nature of this illness is so volatile. Taking care of someone while maintaining physical distance and being worried about their own health is taking a toll on their mental health.
The health workers are working relentlessly in fighting this pandemic. Their mental health like all of us is fragile in the given conditions as they are also equally affected by this pandemic. They are also striving to survive and help others heal. The agony of losing people to Covid-19 and the inability to physically get close to their patients, having to be away from family and constantly keeping a check on their own health are all the factors affecting them badly. Chhabria says, “We have had cases where caregivers share their emotions towards being shunned by people close to them due to fear of infection, seeing a patient’s health deteriorate due to Covid and not being able to help, having to witness people say their final goodbyes over a video call to their family members.”