While in Iran, we find women protesting against forceful imposition of hijab, we see them fighting to wear it in India. Instead of examining our masculine saviour syndrome, that, in words of Gayatri Chakravorty Spivak, tries to “save the brown women from the brown men”, we question their will. When Aftab Poonawala strangles his partner Shraddha Walkar and chops her body into pieces, only to throw it across the largest city of India, we searched for her transgressive behaviour instead of looking at the inherent toxic masculinity that determines our everyday politics of gender and sexuality. Here lies the significance of understanding the ‘transgressive’ that doesn’t follow the contours of our mundane norms.