I have remained awake the whole night.
Driving to the airport in London early morning, I rummage through the detailed bunch of faxed cuttings of the press in Mumbai of date and am pleased and satisfied to read in the Mumbai Mirror that Jaya has on her own spoken to the media on very same lines, regretted the hurt caused and apologized.
I feel grateful and happy.
We are all proud Indians. We love our country. We love and respect the place we were born. We love and respect the place where we work and are settled at. Mumbai and Maharashtra has given us glory and recognition. I am 66 years old and 40 of those years have been spent living in Mumbai. Is it ever possible that we will dishonor it ? Never !!
Jaya has had her education in this State – in the Film Institute in Pune. Lived and graduated from that city. She speaks fluent Marathi. A major portion of our staff are all Maharashtrians. Jaya’s personal maids have been with us for almost 40 years and Jaya speaks to them in the house, only in Marathi.
Can we ever show disrespect to the local language ?
My make up man Deepak Sawant is a Maharashtrian and has been with me for 35 years. And still continues. I have worked along with Jaya in a Marathi film that he produced. He later and more recently produced 2 films in Bhojpuri. I worked in them, without cost.
When the Marathi film ‘Swaas’ was selected for the Oscars and the producers did not have money to go to Los Angeles to promote the film I contributed to their expenses by giving them 11 lakh rupees.
In my production company AB Corp we have been encouraging Marathi talent and filmmakers. One such project has been financed by us and work is in progress. This project is Jaya’s brainchild and she initiated it.
Recently a brilliant Marathi writer and noted intellectual lay critically ill in hospital not having the means to pay for his treatment and subsequent survival. I contributed voluntarily to his expenses again to the tune of 11 lakh rupees and am happy to state that he survived. His wife wrote a most emotional letter of thanks to me.
Dr Mandke, a Maharashtrian and a brilliant heart surgeon, died suddenly and unexpectedly, ironically of a heart attack and ironically, in the middle of putting up a 400 bed Hospital in Lokhandwala in the suburbs of Mumbai North. His wife wanted his dream to be fulfilled and I spoke to my friend Mr Anil Ambani to help fund its completion. You will be happy to know he followed my request and the Hospital shall soon be nearing completion and get operative – a most welcome and desired facility in this vast and Hospital starved metropolis.
Mrs Mandke’s request was brought to me by my own family physician, Dr Barve. Yes a Maharashtrian and one who is like a family member to us. No medical decision is taken in our family without his consent or approval.
Can we ever show disrespect to Maharashtra ?
My father’s works have been translated into Marathi, indeed the first regional language to have initiated that, and has formed an ingredient in the curriculum of the educational system in the state. Even till today I have entertained requests from Marathi writers wanting to translate my father’s works and in particular his autobiography and I have readily and happily given consent without ever considering copyright costs.
Many are not aware that Jaya has spent several constructive years working with the Institute for the Rehabilitation of Handicapped Children, at Haji Ali, next to the Race Course in Mumbai. She initiated and organized drama and musical evenings with deaf and dumb children for the public and we even patronized in sending this group out of the city to perform at various other places. I myself have been to these evenings and it is a marvel to see mentally and physically challenged children performing acts of song and dance on ‘Krishna Leela’ and the ‘Ramayan’. My children and I have given our voice commentary on this activity’s promotion.
Many are unaware that Jaya is an integral part of an organization called ‘Yuvak Biradiri’ a non-government body that does huge amounts of charitable work with and for the Youth of the State of Maharashtra. Natural disasters, blood banks, social service and many related activities have been undertaken most successfully by them and gained huge credentials with the Government in power. Most importantly has been the work that we did for the desolate during the terrible earthquake that ravaged Latur in the interior of the State. We funded the relief work and looking after of the feeding of an entire village for one month, during the crises, virtually adopting it.
RR Patil, the current Home Minister of the State faced a heavy drought condition in his constituency in interior Maharashtra. We contributed substantial funds so that the Yuvak Biradari boys could go and work there to alleviate the suffering of those affected.
And I am not even going into the vast monetary contributions that we as a family have made to Hospitals – Hinduja in Mahim, Mumbai, the Breach Candy in South Mumbai and several other institutions for the blind and the needy.
We have signed on for the education of children. Every year 2 or 3 children get educated in Mumbai through our funding because they do not have the means.
All our unused and old personal clothing goes to a ‘Home’ that cares for the poor.
Abhishek and Aishwarya take personal care and concern on the welfare of AIDS affected children in another special "Home’ in the city.
Does all this reflect disrespect for Maharashtra, Maharashtrians and Mumbai ??
I say all this with great humility. I had never ever wanted to justify our deeds and acts. I am not comfortable with it. But just because we remain quiet does not mean that you can label us with guilt and inconsideration.
We are law-abiding citizens of this country. If and when I have wronged there has been admittance of it. I am ready to be punished if guilty. But you cannot punish us with wrongful accusation.
Jaya’s remark does not in any manner sound anti Marathi. There is no denigration. But words have a funny way of being mutilated to suit a particular copy or expression, in its interpretation. At best they were more pro official/national. But nationalism is often anathema to the excessive tabloidised nature of the times of these days. And did not work. So the next best was glamorized and hence perhaps the strong reactions.
We are concerned and simple citizens of this great country of ours. God has been gracious to us and to the small contributions we as a family, starting from my illustrious father, have made . There has been respect and recognition both within and outside the country. We live a quiet and a non interfering life. Our desire to remain within us has been judged incredulously as arrogance. Blessings have come in abundance from well wishers and fans. We are far removed from the exalted position that the outside world considers us to be in.
I have but, just a simple observation to make.
If we have reached where we have today in the eyes of the people. And survived. There must be something we are doing, that is right.
I pray each day for peace and harmony and strength. And the will to continue doing what is right. So help me God.