The frenetic pace of urban life has inflicted another set of torments on Vanitha Krishnan. Desperately seeking a remedy, Vanitha, a 38-year-old Chennai-based personal assistant, walked into sexologist D. Narayana Reddy’s Dega Institute for Sexual Medicines. She complained that she was being pressured into performing at office, and in her bedroom. "Her job, children, home exhausted her. She had stopped feeling any inclination for sex," recounts Reddy. This led her husband to force sex on her and she suffered a nervous breakdown. This, in turn, induced eating binges till Vanitha was diagnosed with bulimia. She became ungainly, hypertensive and was prescribed medication that made her a wreck. "Vanitha’s no unique case," says Reddy. "Over 45 per cent of patients who come to me these days suffer ailments due to their destructive lifestyle."