IT's a fact that the places—and people—that play hard to get are always the ones you want to hold out for. What charm or mystery can there possibly be in a place too easily arrived at? How can you ever feel truly cut off from the rest of the world if your private heaven is only a couple of steps from the very public hell of the metropolis you've been trying to escape? But too much agony and the traveller loses patience. Too little agony and all sense of adventure and reward is lost. The art of unwinding then is to strike the perfect balance between agony and ecstasy and head out for the perfect destination which suits you and your family this summer. Just a few ideas which do not necessarily involve physical strain.