A case that could prove the professor's point is, perhaps, Padamsee’s response to a 27 - year-old "well-endowed" woman’s query in her column called Home Truths in Femina . "I live with my two younger brothers aged 17 and 19. I regularly allow them to fondle my breasts as I don’t want them to grow up breast-hungry like so many Indians. In fact, every Saturday we all sleep together (we never have intercourse) and on Sunday we go about the house without any clothes. I feel this gives us a chance to see each other and feel each other… I feel this is a healthy practice as it satisfies the baser instincts in the boys," the letter says. Padamsee replies: "Even though I consider your behaviour socially outrageous, I feel that it is being well-handled in your home. If all are comfortable, what's the point of disputing matters – especially when you are in charge and control of the situation." The reply is suffixed with a word of caution about "remembering responsibilities while enjoying sexual freedom", but does not indicate the mental or the social consequences that could follow such an abnormal situation.