BEHIND every successful man is a woman. And behind her another. Armed with this addendum to the popular saying, the concept of the ‘other woman’ is more the rule than an exception in the southern state of Tamil Nadu, albeit better known for its conservativeness. In Madras, a skimpily clad woman may invite contempt but not a mistress who is referred to as the second wife even by the first. What’s more—the love nest set up for the other woman is called the ‘Chinnaveedu’ or the other home.