And there are so many stories. Ami tells us about the Rabari community’s ban against women embroidering, which happened around 1997. “It was because the only dowry women would take with them was their trousseau that they embroidered themselves (and some vessels). And they couldn’t enter their in-laws’ house till they finished the trousseau. But they’d have to embroider not just clothes, but torans for doors, a covering rug, something for the children they’d have, and so on. It was much too time consuming. In some cases, women would get married but not move to their husband’s place for many years. So the community elders decided enough was enough, and asked for a ban on the elaborate embroideries.”