As someone who got to play with both Barbies and cars, I believe that toys are not supposed to be gendered. My parents were flexible because I was a girl child for them but if I had been a boy, I do not think I will be able to access dolls like Barbie. I would have been mocked, shamed and told that boys do not play with dolls. Also, a mass part of the market does not focus on toys that would show healthy ideals of masculinity for instance, Ken dolls taking care of a child are not available in the market as the Indian society and other patriarchal societies believe that fathers are supposed to provide money and that is the sole responsibility of theirs as parents. This is something that is been debated in the courts right now about the roles of parents. Barbie dolls are not just a toy, they are a reflection of the markets where they sell.
(Meghna Mehra is the author of the book 'Mini Dictionary Of The LGBTQIA+ Community' and other books. She has a Master's Degree in Political Science, a PG Diploma in women and gender studies and is the founder of AIQA Foundation. Currently, she is pursuing her master's in electoral management from TISS)